Luke
22:39; 41-42 – Jesus went out as usual to the Mount of Olives, and his
disciples followed him. 41 He withdrew about a stone's throw beyond them, knelt
down and prayed, 42 "Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me;
yet not my will, but yours be done."
Here is a meditation on this passage by
author Amanda Witt.
Listen to the phrasing of our prayers:
Please heal her – but if not, then your will be done. Please give me a job –
but if not, your will be done. Please bring home my lost child – but if not,
your will be done.
We are praying humbly. We are saying that we
know that God knows better than we do. But many times our phrasing seems to
imply that God's will is always the bad thing – malignancy, poverty,
bereavement. We speak as if we think God wants to hurt us, and if we're lucky
he'll give us our way and not wreak his terrible will on us.
"Too often," wrote Thomas Merton,
"the conventional conception of ‘God's will’ as a sphinx‑like and
arbitrary force bearing down upon us with implacable hostility, leads people to
lose faith in a God they cannot find it possible to love.”
That is the center of the problem of prayer and suffering. Merton continued, “We must learn to realize that the love of God seeks us in every situation and seeks our good. His inscrutable love seeks our awakening ....
When we understand ... we will learn to take the risks implied by faith, to make the choices that deliver us from our routine self and open to us the door of a new being, a new reality.
When Christ prayed in the garden of Gethsemane to be spared the agony of the cross and concluded, 'Yet not my will, but yours,' it turned out that God's will was indeed terrible to behold. Sometimes it will be so in our own lives. Yet even in such circumstances we must remember, as Christ surely remembered, that we pray for God's will to be done because His will is the best, most wonderful thing that could happen to us, even if it is also the most terrible thing we can imagine (Thomas Merton, Seeds of Contemplation).
Let us
pray:
Great and holy God, creator of the universe and author of every good work, we praise you for giving us the gift of prayer, that we may approach you confidently. Let us pray from our minds, Lord, that our thoughts may be true and holy. Let us pray from our hearts, Lord, that our souls may be filled with love. Let us pray without ceasing, Lord, that when you come again, you will find faith on the earth. In the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Amen.
Are you familiar with the story of the persistent widow? She was an elderly, United Methodist woman whom we’ll call Matilda. She was not able to do all the maintenance that her house needed over time, so she asked her church’s lay leader to arrange for some men of the church to come over and help her out. Time went by and no men came by, so she asked again with no result. Finally, she started calling him on the phone at various times of the day or evening, ignoring his pleas to leave him alone. At last, he could not take it anymore and just to get her to be quiet he persuaded several men to go to her house one Saturday.
They did
do a lot of work. The cleaned out her gutters and cut dead branches off some
trees. They repainted some places inside and out and weeded her garden. They
edged her sidewalks and sprayed grass killer on her driveway and replaced
burned out eave lights, and much more.
The next
day Matilda was not in church. And the week after that she was not there. When
she was absent on the third Sunday the lay leader asked Matilda’s best friend
if Matilda was all right.
“Oh, she’s fine,” came the reply. “But she told me that ya’ll made her house look so upscale that she decided to join the Episcopal church.”
Well,
that’s one story of a persistent widow. Jesus told one, too.
Luke 18:1‑8
1 And he
told them a parable to illustrate that they ought always to pray without giving
up. 2 He said, “In a certain city there was a judge who had no regard for God
or the opinions of others. 3 And there was a widow in that city who kept coming
to him and saying, ‘Give me justice in my lawsuit.’ 4 For a while he brushed
her off, but finally he said to himself, ‘Though I don’t care what God or other
people think, this widow keeps bothering me. So I will rule in her favor so she
will quit pestering me to death.”
6 And the Lord said, “If even that sinful judge says that, 7 don’t you think that God will give justice to his people, who call to him all the time? Do you think he will drag his feet over their prayers? 8 I tell you, he will give justice to them right away! Even so, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?”
In this passage Jesus is not comparing God to the unjust judge. He is contrasting God with the judge. The widow had to pester the judge for a long time before she finally wore him down, but Jesus says that God does not drag his feet over our prayers.
I have corresponded for about 20 years with a writer named Gerard Vanderleun who once wrote an essay why prayers are answered -- or aren’t, as the case may be. The main thrust of Gerard's essay concerns God's workload. "He's one God who is running a very big universe," wrote Gerard.
Perhaps He's got the whole thing franchised and He's running thousands of universes in a host of different dimensions, all with local variations to the main menu. We don't know. We can't know. But if you grant even one universe to this one God, you've got to admit this would be a very busy Supreme Being. Even being omnipotent and omnipresent and omniscient, You'd still have an In Box beyond the human mind's capacity for bogglement. ...
The final upshot is that, even if God just steps away from his desk for a quick trip to heaven's free beverage machine, when He gets back, he's confronted with at least 4,675,839 prayers presented as pink ‘While You Were Out Slips.’
I submit that even the most omnipotent God cannot deal with incoming requests at this rate. ...
To me this is the most obvious reason that some prayers are answered while most are not. It's simply a question of time and resources, even for God.
Does it really happen this way? I will readily grant that prayers come to God at a rate that we can but poorly imagine – Gerard mentions a scene in the movie Bruce Almighty where Bruce, an ordinary man to whom God gives his divine power for a weekend, is so overwhelmed monitoring the prayer board that he freaks out and hits the "yes to all" button, which causes no end of turmoil in the world because the millions of prayers include requests for unholy things or vast contradictions among them.
It will not do to hide behind the old cliché that "God does answer every prayer, it's just that often the answer is no." That's not what Gerard is getting at. He is addressing why so many prayers apparently get no answer at all. They are, as far as mere humans can tell, simply ignored. Why?
That prayers come too fast, too many even for God to handle is a reason I cannot accept. Here's why. The eleventh-century English theologian Anselm of Canterbury defined God simply as “that than which no greater can be conceived." This insight has stood the test of time quite well. After all, if there is a Supreme Being, then that being must be, well, Supreme. There can be no greater.
So if God, the Creator of the universe, is unable to keep up with the workload of managing it, then I would not say that God is doing the best he can. I would say that the entity so described is not God.
But that understanding can't be used every time. There are tragedies or suffering that can force us to confront a core issue of faith: if God seems not to heed prayers of the most crucial kind, then exactly why should we believe the Scriptures, which say that we can approach God with confidence? How could Jesus have claimed that God responds quickly to our prayers?
Of course, we do not ask such questions outside of the tragic. No one who gets a promotion and raise
at work sees it as evidence of God' absence and then decides to throw Jesus
under the bus.
It is in
suffering that we tend to see God as
inscrutable or indifferent when our prayers seem to be ignored. How often have
I heard platitudes such as, "God does not put on us more than we can
bear," which is nowhere taught in the Bible, or, "God must have some
reason for this," which presents God as a
sphinxlike, arbitrary force bearing down upon us with implacable hostility, as
Merton said. Do we really think we are pawns pushed around by incomprehensible,
divine capriciousness?
Jesus
had little patience with the idea that God snuffs out people arbitrarily or
even as punishment. In Luke 13 Jesus commented on two recent tragedies. One was
that Pontius Pilate had ordered the slaughter of some Galileans who were making
their sacrifices. Then there was a building that collapsed and killed eighteen
people. Do you think they were worse sinners or guiltier than everyone else?
Jesus asked. He answered, “I tell you, no... .”
If tragedy
is God’s punishment for sin, the obvious question is, Where would God stop? With
the righteous? Jesus refuted the idea that the righteous will not suffer; in
fact, he promised it as a consequence of righteousness!
After an
Indian ocean tsunamis killed almost a quarter million people in 2004, British
journalist Gerard Baker observed the triumphant shouts of the new-atheist
movement that the disasters proved God does not exist. Baker wrote (abridged):
We ask: why would God allow such suffering? A perfectly legitimate question, of course. We know all too well that undeserved pain, injury, disease, and loss of life are daily facts of life for hundreds of millions of people on the planet.
If, then, what the
atheists are attacking is the notion of an all‑seeing, all‑powerful benign
deity, constantly engaged in and altering the tide of human events, they do not
need a tsunami to prove their point. The knowledge that just one child
somewhere was dying of cancer would bring the whole fantasy crumbing down.
Put it this way:
imagine for a moment, that there were not only no earthquakes, floods and
storms, but that there was no innocent suffering and never had been in the
history of the earth. Imagine if, every time a faulty gene was on its way to
being transmitted to an unborn child, the hand of God dipped in and the gene
was corrected. Imagine God frantically circling the globe redirecting every train
headed for a faulty bridge, reprogramming every failed computer in a hospital
operating theatre, and printing money every time some undeserving chap got down
on his luck.
Imagine, in other
words, if everyone since the beginning of time lived to a ripe old age and died
in his bed.
Such a fair,
challengeless world might be a wonderful place to live. But I don’t think that
it would be recognisably human. If we have reason to doubt the point of our
existence in this world, surely we would understand it even less in that one.
And if I were God, and had created Man, I am not quite sure that I would see
the point either.
That we should be extremely reluctant to blame God for our suffering does not mean that God is absent from our suffering. Both testaments see suffering as part of human life. Jesus said so too: “In this world you will have trouble,” he said. “But take heart! I have overcome the world!”
Over
time – and it was frankly a long time – I came to an understanding that for the
most urgent issues of life and death, God has already answered our prayers long
ago. Heal my wife's cancer, my child's leukemia, my heart disease – these are
serious concerns to be sure, for which a miracle would be welcomed indeed. Yet I
cannot justify praying for that which the Scriptures offer no support. There is
nothing in the Bible promising God's people a pass on the tragedies of life. Of
course, I do pray for healing of the sick and I do pray for the lives of those
facing death. Yet, in grappling with the many cases I have encountered, I had
to understand that God is not a cosmic vending machine dispensing favors for
which prayers are the currency. God is Lord of both life and death, and as Paul
wrote, there is nothing in life or in death that can separate us from the love
of God for us in Christ Jesus. That is itself an answer already given to many
prayers. Though the sufferings of this life are real, they are not permanent.
In a profound way, our prayers in such times have been permanently answered already
in the incarnation, work, and resurrection of Jesus Christ.
With that assurance, the more years I spend in prayer, the less I pray, or see the point in praying, mostly for God to do something, doggone it and the more I pray for God to lead me to do something. I pray less that God will conform to my desires or needs of the moment, no matter how pressing they may be, but that I and others concerned in the prayer‑situation be conformed more to God in the likeness of Christ. And that fact is itself an answer, already given, to many prayers, though the sufferings of this life remain real. They just do not remain permanent.
Yet more
is necessary, I think. Prayer is only one part of engaging God. In the movie Forrest
Gump, there is a character named Lieutenant Dan. He lost both legs in
Vietnam and, embittered by his life, finally joins his old subordinate, Gump,
in running a shrimp boat off the Louisiana coast. Dan scoffs at Gump's simple
faith and sarcastically tells him to pray for shrimp. One day they are caught
at sea by a violent storm that threatens to sink the boat. But Dan refuses to
seek shelter in the boat’s cabin. He remains high on the mast with the whipping
rain and lightning all around, shaking his fist to the storm and yelling at
God, "Is this the best you can do?"
Lieutenant
Dan is unable to dismiss God as delusion, even though it would be so much
easier to do so. He is determined to confront God as God, even to defy
God if that is what it takes to encounter him deeply. The two men and their
boat survive the storm and over time, Dan finally finds his peace with God.
So many of us decline to encounter God except in storms of life or in pro‑forma occasions such as a minute of silence now and then. We should remember that the prayers of our lips are to be buttressed by godly living for godly purposes. It surely can be no wonder that God refuses to acknowledge prayers seeking his miracles when we so consistently fail to acknowledge his call to us for our daily service. Just as Jesus in the garden, we find that maturity in prayer is not about God doing what we want, but about being willing and empowered to do what God wants even if it makes us recoil. We need remember that the worst thing that can happen to us is not the last thing that will happen to us because Christ has died, Christ is risen, thanks be to God.
The
conundrum of life‑as‑prayer is that we come less and less to ask God for a performance
as for his presence – come what may. Finally, we realize that God with
us and us with God is all the answer God may give us and is sufficient for our
need.
